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Breach of Promise To Marriage In Nigeria

Charles Chukwuma Nkwoka, Esq.11 May 2024Updated 18 July 202627 min read

Shocking Truth: Can Breach of Promise to Marriage Be Enforceable in Nigeria’s Legal System? Breach of promise to marriage in Nigeria

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Introduction

Love, romance, and engagement rings—these are symbols of commitment, but what happens when the promise of marriage is broken? In Nigeria, where cultural and legal traditions often intertwine, many wonder whether a breach of promise to marriage holds any legal weight. Can a jilted lover sue for damages? Does the law recognize such claims, or is it merely a sentimental issue with no enforceability?

This article provides a detailed legal examination of whether a breach of promise to marriage is enforceable under Nigerian law. We will explore the historical background, legal precedents, cultural influences, and judicial decisions that shape this controversial topic.

Understanding the Concept of Breach of Promise to Marry

A breach of promise to marry occurs when one party, after making a commitment to marry another, reneges on that promise without lawful justification. In many legal systems, this has been considered a civil wrong (tort) or contractual breach. However, with evolving legal and societal norms, the enforceability of such claims has become a topic of debate .

Historical Background

Historically, English common law —which significantly influenced Nigerian law—recognized breach of promise to marry as an enforceable claim. The reasoning was that an engagement was akin to a binding contract , and breaking it without just cause could lead to damages.

However, in many modern legal systems, including the UK, breach of promise lawsuits have been abolished on the grounds that marriage is a personal relationship that should not be legally enforced through penalties for non-performance.

Does Nigerian Law Recognize Breach of Promise to Marry?

The Nigerian legal system , rooted in common law principles, still recognizes breach of promise to marriage claims in certain circumstances . Although such cases are rare, Nigerian courts have awarded damages in some instances where plaintiffs successfully proved their case.

To understand the enforceability, let’s break down the legal and contractual elements of a promise to marry.

1. Contractual Nature of Engagements

Under contract law principles , an agreement between two consenting adults, if supported by consideration , can be enforceable. A promise to marry, in some cases, is viewed as a form of contract , meaning that a breach could lead to legal consequences.

For a claim to succeed, the plaintiff must prove that:

  • A clear promise to marry was made.
  • There was reliance on the promise , leading to personal or financial consequences.
  • The promise was breached without justification .

2. Proving a Breach of Promise to Marry

For a lawsuit to succeed, evidence must show that:

  • There was a serious commitment to marry, not just casual dating.
  • Witnesses, letters, texts, or social media messages confirming the engagement exist.
  • The plaintiff suffered loss or damage due to the breach.

3. Damages and Compensation

If a court rules in favor of the plaintiff, damages can be awarded in two main forms:

  • Special Damages: Compensation for monetary losses (e.g., wedding expenses, gifts, financial investments made in anticipation of the marriage).
  • General Damages: Compensation for emotional distress, humiliation, and reputational harm .

Case Law on Breach of Promise to Marry in Nigeria

Several Nigerian court decisions have addressed the issue of breach of promise to marriage. Below are two notable cases:

1. Okafor v. Agbo (1993)

In this case, the plaintiff sued after the defendant called off their engagement without justifiable reason. The court found that the promise to marry was legally binding , and damages were awarded for emotional distress and financial loss .

2. Ukeje v. Ukeje (2014)

Although primarily a case about inheritance rights, this decision reinforced the contractual nature of personal relationships in Nigerian law, further implying that breach of promise cases can be legally actionable.

These cases highlight that while rare, breach of promise claims can be enforced under Nigerian law when strong evidence is presented.

The concept of breach of a promise to marry may be evaluated under the following headings:

· Marriage as a form of contract.

· Laws governing Marriage in Nigeria.

· Breach of promise to marry.

· Remedies for breach of promise to marry.

· Defenses to breach of promise to marry.

MARRIAGE AS FORM OF CONTRACT

In the definition above, a key feature that stands out is that marriage is a contract. Black’s Law Dictionary defines contract, inter alia, as “1. An agreement between two or more parties creating obligations that are enforceable or otherwise recognizable at law…2. The Writing that sets forth such an agreement…3. A promise or set of promises by a party to a transaction, enforceable or otherwise recognizable at law”. It is a voluntary agreement between parties and willingly entered into. However, the freedom enjoyed by parties to contract carries with it the inevitable implication of sanctity of their contracts. Just like any other contract, marriage has its elements.

A careful consideration of the definition of contract stated above will reveal that a contract is a promise. What then is a promise? As defined in Black’s Law Dictionary, a promise is “the manifestation of an intention to act or refrain from acting in a specified manner conveyed in such a way that another is justified in understanding that a commitment has been made; a person’s assurance that a person will or will not do something.” The Supreme Court per Onu, JSC in Agoma v. Guiness (Nig) Ltd adopted the definition of promise in Osborn: The Concise Law Dictionary, Fifth Edition (1964) where it was defined as “The expression of an intention to do or forbear from some act.”.

For a better understanding of the discourse, it is necessary to define the word “Breach”. According to the Black’s Law Dictionary, a breach is “a violation or infraction of a law, obligation or agreement …whether by neglect, refusal, resistance or inaction.” Breach of promise according to Black’s Law Dictionary then is “the violation of one’s word or undertaking, especially a promise to marry. Under English common law, an engagement to marry had the nature of a commercial contract, so if one party broke the engagement without justification, the innocent party was entitled to damages.”

We shall briefly look into each of these features.

OFFER- An offer is like a proposal made by an individual to another person, in this context, from a man to a woman or vice versa. This offer is not made to the whole world but to a particular person. Therefore, an advertisement on Facebook, Twitter or any other social media searching for a spouse is not an offer but a mere invitation to treat. In such a circumstance, the person that accepts such is actually the person making the offer which must be accepted by the other person. In order to constitute an offer, it must be stated in specific terms and must be direct. An offer can be revoked before acceptance should the offeror (man/woman making the proposal) change his or her mind but such revocation must be duly communicated to the other party. The offer should not be conditional or else, it won’t be valid till the fulfillment of that condition. In FGN & Ors. V. Zebra Energy Ltd. it was held per Ayoola, JSC that “Where an offer is subject to condition the formation of the contract is postponed until the happening of the event on which the offer is conditioned. If the condition of the offer is that unless something is done within a stipulated time, the offer is determined, such an offer cannot be valid until after the happening of the event.”

CONSIDERATION- The apex court defined consideration in the case of BFI Group Corporation V. B.P.E. per Adekeye, JSC. as “some right, interest, profit or benefit accruing to one party or some forbearance, detriment, loss or responsibility given, suffered or undertaken by the other. In law, parties to a contract are free to conclude their bargain on whatever terms are deemed to be appropriate. Once the consideration is of some value in the eyes of the law, the courts have jurisdiction to determine whether it is adequate or inadequate. In principle therefore, no consideration is too small or too much or unfair in the absence of fraud, duress or misrepresentation.” From the cited case, it is very clear that consideration need not be money. Where the offeree suffers or abstains from exercising some of his/ her rights as a result of an offer to marry, such will suffice as consideration. Only that the thing/act given as consideration must be of value.

B. LAWS GOVERNING MARRIAGES IN NIGERIA.

In Nigeria, marriages are governed by legislations including the Marriage Act, the Matrimonial Causes Act, Customary Law, etc. The Marriage Act provides for the celebration of marriages while the Matrimonial Causes Act makes provisions for matrimonial causes.

C. BREACH OF PROMISE TO MARRY.

Earlier in this paper, we had stated that marriage between parties is a contract. In the case of a breach, the aggrieved party can sue for damages. It should be borne in mind that either of the parties can bring an action for breach of promise to marry. The right to sue for a breach of promise to marry is not limited to the womenfolk but can also be instituted by a male who is aggrieved.

In order to successfully bring an action for breach of promise to marry, the Plaintiff must be able to prove the following:

That the other Party made a promise of marriage. This kind of promise is different from just hopeful expectations, or casual suggestions. It must be concrete and there must be a meeting of the minds between the parties. The party making the promise must clearly show his intention (through words, actions or conducts) and the other party the promise is being made to must accept it. The promissee must understand what the promisor is saying and the former must have accepted it. Acceptance need not be instant. It may be later but must be within a reasonable time.

That the other party reneged on the promise. In order to prove a breach of promise to marry, the aggrieved party must be able to show that the other party failed to fulfil his/her promise. Where there is a stipulated time for the fulfillment of the promise to marry, it must be fulfilled within such time, and where no time is stated, it must be fulfilled within a reasonable time. Where the fulfillment of the promise is conditional, then there cannot be a breach until such condition has happened.

These two conditions precedent were clearly stated in the case of Ezeanah V. Atta (where the Supreme Court per Tobi, JSC (as he then was) held that “Two elements are necessary to constitute a breach of agreement or promise of marriage. First, the party jilted must prove to the satisfaction of the court that there was in fact a promise of marriage under the Matrimonial Causes Act, 1990, or under Islamic Law or under Customary Law on the part of the other sex. Second, the party reneging has really and as a matter of fact failed or refused to keep to the agreement of the marriage”.

There are two types of breach of promise to marry. The first one is non – performance while the second one is anticipatory breach. There is non – performance where a date has been fixed for marriage but the other party refuses to honor such or where there is a condition precedent to the marriage taking place and the party who ought to discharge such obligation refuses to. Anticipatory breach on the other hand occurs where a party prior to the date fixed for the wedding cancels it or better still decides to elope with another person leaving the jilted party alone. Such aggrieved party whether a male or female can actually sue for breach of promise to marry. In recent times there have been instances of a groom not showing up on the day of wedding, calling the wedding off after the traditional marriage and other strange occurrences. In such situations, the aggrieved party can institute an action in court and sue for damages.

In some other cases, a lady might forfeit her education or even relocate to another country because of the promise to marry. On the part of a man too, he might invest his resources in the education of a lady, train her by spending a fortune with the understanding and agreement of marriage only for the lady to suddenly realize that that the man is “too low” for her new found status. All these and more are instances of breach of promise to marry and can be taken up by the aggrieved party and an action instituted against the offending party.

D. DEFENCES TO BREACH OF PROMISE TO MARRY.

“3. Void marriages and prohibited degrees of consanguinity

(1) Subject to the provisions of this section, a marriage that takes place after the commencement of this Act is void in any of the following cases but not otherwise, that is to say, where‐

(a) either of the parties is, at the time of the marriage, lawfully married to some other person;

(b) the parties are within the prohibited degrees of consanguinity or, subject to section 4 of this Act, of affinity;

(c) the marriage is not a valid marriage under the law of the place where the marriage takes place, by reason of a failure to comply with the requirements of the law of that place with respect to the form of solemnization of marriages;

(i) it was obtained by duress or fraud; or

(ii) that party is mistaken as to identity of the other party, or as to the nature of the ceremony performed;

(iii) that party is mentally incapable of understanding the nature of the marriage contract;

(e) either of the parties is not of marriageable age.”

From the provisions of section 3(1)(a) – (e) of the Matrimonial Causes Act reproduced above, it is clear that under those circumstances, even where there is a marriage and not just a promise to marry, such will be rendered void. Also, the grounds for dissolution of marriage are set out in sections 15 and 16 of the Matrimonial Causes Act. It is most respectfully submitted that the grounds stated in the two sections will also avail a Defendant as defences in an action for breach of promise of marriage. Therefore, where there is a promise of marriage only to discover any of the circumstances listed sections 3, 15 and 16) of the Matrimonial Causes Act, the other party who was not aware of such at the time of agreement or promise could, actually, justifiably, renege on the promise of marriage. He/she cannot be liable for breach of promise to marry even if it was shown that he/she entered into such agreement with prior knowledge of the offending situation. Few other defenses are listed as follows:

DECEIT/MISREPRESENTATION:

When a party sets out with the aim of deceiving the other party into a promise to marry, and the other party reneges on this ground, the latter cannot be sued for breach of promise to marry. Nowadays, we have instances of people undergoing surgery that radically changes their appearance, use of excessive make-up to cover a badly scarred face, and lots more. In instances like these, where a promise is based on deceit as a result of which the aggrieved party goes back on his/her promise after discovery, the promise cannot sue for breach. Again, it is common nowadays to see transgenders who have had to undergo surgeries to change from their original sexes. If the innocent party discovers for instance that the person he/she promised to marry was originally of a different sex, he/she would be justified to renege on his/her promise.

II. INFIDELITY:

Where a party, whether a man or a woman, discovers (with proof, not mere speculations) that the other person is not faithful but is busy messing/sleeping around, such party can opt out of the agreement to marry.

III. ILLNESSES AND DISEASES:

Where a party is suffering from diseases that makes it impossible to marry e.g., mental disorder, it can be a defense to breach of promise to marry.

E. REMEDY FOR BREACH OF PROMISE TO MARRY:

In the case of Uso v Iketubosin, the defendant promised to marry the plaintiff in 1947. In 1957, the defendant married another woman in breach of his promise to the plaintiff. The Court held that the defendant’s act constituted a breach for which the plaintiff was entitled to damages. Suffice it to reiterate that where there is a wrong, there must be a remedy – ubi jus ibi remedium. This principle of law has been applied by our courts in deserving cases. In Bello V. AG, Oyo State , Karibi- Whyte, JSC (as he then was) stated as follows:

“In fact, this is a case that the respondent should have spared himself the agony of going through the court processes. For him, when the going was good he lavished love (I imagined it was reciprocated), money and eventually landed property on the appellant. When the tide turned, he fell back on non-existent agreement to marry and urged the Court to go the extra mile of pronouncing the existence of a resulting trust. I refuse to lend hand to assuage the feelings of a lover whose romance went awry. The love that once bound these two people and now got frosted can be likened to verse xxxv of Shakespeare “Sonnets” a sort of lamentation, and also verse 1 of “Passionate Pilgrim”. Thus we have in this case so much love and then so much pain. It is the way of the world”. (emphasis supplied)

Again, it should be noted that in a case of breach of promise to marry, the court cannot order specific performance. The court only makes an order of performance where it is possible. In the case of Help (Nig) Ltd V. Silver Anchor (Nig) Ltd Tobi, JSC held that “This Court can only decree specific performance for a purpose which can be achieved or enforced. It cannot decree specific performance in vain. In other words, this Court cannot decree specific Performance which cannot be achieved or enforced.”

CONCLUSION

Marriage is not only a family, traditional, cultural, moral or religious issue. It is also a legal issue and should never be taken lightly as a breach of promise of marriage is actionable in law. When there is a breach of promise of marriage, an aggrieved party, whether male or female, may institute an action for damages. Such an aggrieved party does not have to suffer in silence, and should never resort to self – help, a remedy which has been condemned in a plethora of decided cases. In Agbai & Ors. v. Okogbue, Nwokedi, JSC stated that self – help “is a primitive remedy capable of causing a breach of the peace … the magnitude of which no one may conjecture …” Where there is a clear breach of promise of marriage, aggrieved persons should therefore avail themselves of the machinery of the law to seek redress. If in the near future, we read less stories of the sort that were told at the outset of this discourse, and a number of persons approach the courts seeking redress for breach of promise of marriage, the purpose of this article would have been well served.

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(2013) LPELR 21863 (SC) at page 61.

Supra, note 1 att page 389- 390.

Tenth Edition at page 1406.

(1995) LPELR – 251 (SC) at 29, paras E – F.

Tenth Edition at page 225.

Tenth Edition at page 226.

(2004) LPELR- 1198 (SC) at pages 20 – 21, paras E – C.

(2002) LPELR-3172 (SC) at pages 42 – 43’ paras F – B.

(2011) LPELR – 781(SC) at page 28, paras C – F.

(1987) LPELR – 3494 (SC) at page 26, paras A – C.

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Section 3(1)(a) – (e).

(2010) LPELR – 4689 (CA) at page 11D – F.

WRNLR 187.

(1986) 5 NWLR (Pt. 45) 828 at 870 – 871.

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(2004) LPELR – 1198 (SC) at pages 36A – E.

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